How to Help a Loved One Adjust to a Retirement Home

Moving to a retirement home is a big change, even if it’s been planned. It’s more than just a new address - it’s a shift in routine, surroundings, and daily life. As a family member, caregiver, or loved one, there are ways you can help ease that transition and make the new place truly feel like home.

1. Personalize their new space

Even small touches can make a big difference. Take familiar items like framed photos, a favourite quilt, treasured books, and display them in their suite. Include a favourite chair or lamp if space allows. These personal items give comfort and continuity.

2. Get them involved in the setup

Before moving day, visit the retirement home together. Talk to staff, meet team members, and get a sense of the community vibe. Unpacking and arranging their space together - deciding where things go based on their routine - helps them take ownership of their new environment.

3. Keep connections going

One of the biggest worries is losing touch with loved ones. Encourage regular visits, calls, or video chats. Attend meals or events with them at first. In time, they’ll find new friends—and the staff may even help introduce them to social groups and activities 

4. Tap into amenities and programming

Retirement residences often offer fitness classes, social nights, arts programs, outings, and more. Encourage them to explore at their own pace. Keep in mind: jumping in right away isn’t always best. Adjusting can take weeks or months, so be patient.

5. Acknowledge emotions—don’t rush them

It’s normal to feel sadness or resistance, especially if they’re leaving their longtime home. Validate those feelings, and resist the urge to push them into activities too soon. Listening and giving them time is key.

6. Choose the right retirement home

A good fit makes everything easier. Visit multiple residences (ideally more than once), ask about care levels, location, fees, and services. Read reviews and use resources like Senior Care Access to guide your search.